{"id":16,"date":"2009-07-23T10:33:10","date_gmt":"2009-07-23T17:33:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/oceanpark.com\/blog\/?p=16"},"modified":"2025-09-15T20:08:54","modified_gmt":"2025-09-15T20:08:54","slug":"my-brother-has-a-mental-illness-so-he-is-in-jail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oceanpark.com\/blog\/2009\/07\/my-brother-has-a-mental-illness-so-he-is-in-jail\/","title":{"rendered":"1. My brother has a mental illness so is in jail"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chapter 1 in a series on mental illness<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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This is my first column.\u00a0 I will dedicate this column to my brother Tony who was first diagnosed with a mental illness in 1986.\u00a0 The saga of his life and how it has affected those close to him is a story I will tell.\u00a0 I will tell it here in future columns.\u00a0 Tony himself has written about his life and journey that has been so affected by an illness that most of the time he does not acknowledge as real.\u00a0 His writing is creative, illuminating, and entertaining on many topics, including the illness.\u00a0 With his permission I will share some of his writing here in future columns.<\/p>\n

[Note: Elsewhere see excerpts of Tony Allard’s writing about his own mental illness <\/a>.]<\/p>\n

Much of the time, the illness does what can best be described as taking over the consciousness of my brother and running his life.\u00a0 My brother deserves respect for the wonderful, caring creative human being he is while the illness deserves no respect.\u00a0 The illness only deserves treatment and the only treatment that has allowed my brother to be himself and run his own life has been in the form of certain medicines.\u00a0 Without those medicines, the illness takes over his life.\u00a0 Anyone who objects to those medicines is not defending my brother’s right to a life but, rather, is defending the illness’ right to conquer and take over my brother’s life.\u00a0 The illness is not my brother and my brother is not the illness.\u00a0 The illness is like a computer virus that makes the computer screw up big time except this virus-like illness is a consciousness of its own, takes over people, and runs and ruins their lives.\u00a0 It must be treated, with medicine when necessary.<\/p>\n

My brother is allergic to the soap in the LA County “Twin Towers” jail so he buys some special soap from the jail store.\u00a0 He had no money and already owed a friend in jail ten dollars so he needed the money by Thursday, the day he is allowed to buy things from the store.\u00a0 Yesterday was already Wednesday.\u00a0 Tony called me collect from jail, the only way he has to call me, reminding me that he needed the money.\u00a0 I had been procrastinating a bit about getting out there to visit him, busy with my life and work out here in freedomsville.\u00a0 But I’m one of my mentally ill brother’s few contacts in the outside world who is willing to help him out.\u00a0 I decided to drive out to Twin Towers and deposit $200 into his account.<\/p>\n

It is his money, since for over a year now he has been receving disablity income.\u00a0 That was the one good stroke of luck he had in the past many years, getting qualified for that income.\u00a0 Because beyond that little stroke of luck, having a condition most recently diagnosed as bipolar with schizoaffective disorder results in a long continuous string of events that might best be characterized as unlucky in a big way.<\/p>\n

I manage Tony’s money for him when he is in jail.\u00a0 When he is out of jail and sane, he manages it pretty well, being able to keep an apartment and maintain friendships.\u00a0 Then, when he goes off his medication and has delusions and thinks he is an FBI Agent and that everyone is talking about him, he most often gambles away all of his money at Hollywood Park or one of the poker casinos in Gardena that still let him in.<\/p>\n

One time, when sane, he took a class to become a poker dealer.\u00a0 He did well in the class but then on the first live test day, he got nervous and froze up.\u00a0 I won’t recount the bitter irony I felt when I heard he was striving to make a career working in those casinos where so much of his life has passed in what I view as a lonely existence.\u00a0 He does not see it that way but then again he does not see most things the same you or I see them.<\/p>\n

I stopped at an ATM up on Ocean Park Blvd near where I live to extract the two hundred dollars.\u00a0 I put the money in my right front pocket instead of in my wallet.\u00a0 I was going to a jail and I just assume that the chances of being mugged are\u00a0 higher in that part of town so I keep my wallet and money in separate pockets for expeditions like this.\u00a0 I had checked Google maps and saw a traffic jam on the 110 Harbor Freeway so I took the longer way around, taking the 10 to the 5 then off at Main Street and over to Vignes to get to the jail.<\/p>\n

There was a parking place on the street right across from the jail so I snapped that up to avoid the seven dollar parking fee in the bunker-like parking structure and walked over to the IRC, the Inmate Reception Center.\u00a0 I walked up what has become a familiar concrete stairway to the second floor cashier.\u00a0 I filled out the slip with Tony’s official name and booking number and, after a short wait in line, handed over the two hundred dollars that would soon be in Tony’s account so he could buy his soap and whatever other small luxuries might help his stay in jail.<\/p>\n

I didn’t take time to visit him since it was not a visiting day and, even if it were, visiting someone in jail is a very time consuming process.\u00a0 That will be for another day and a future column.\u00a0 I will also report on his progress in the court system on his recent felony charge of robbery, which occurred when he grabbed a woman’s purse, threw out the contents on the ground, and then walked away.\u00a0 He faces a second felony conviction for that act and up to ten years in prison.\u00a0 For not taking his meds.<\/p>\n

[ story continued: https:\/\/oceanpark.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/my-mentally-ill-brother-is-scheduled-for-trial\/<\/a> ]<\/p>\n

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